Are You A Forum Phantom?
I am totally amazed at how many people who post on forums claim they want to be successful, yet they do everything they can to sabotage their success by concealing their identities.
No name, no pic, no address, no phone number, no website, no sig file...If your goal is too become successful online, that`s certainly not the way to do it.
Look at the top marketers. We know their names, where they live, what they look like, etc. That`s how they became top marketers. They developed a trust factor online, by exposing themselves and revealing who they are.
They allowed us to get to know them. And people buy from people they know and trust. That`s an ironclad fact.
Hiding behind a silly avatar and screen name doesn`t instill very much trust. Who or what are you guys hiding from?
Are the cops hot on your trail?...the feds?...a psychopathic ex? Seriously though, would you give your money to a phantom?
Well then, why would you expect anyone to give their money to you? So many people who post on forums are phantoms. Why?
Actually, a better question is, unless you are indeed hiding from the law, why not put yourself out there? The more familiar people are with you, the more people will trust you, the more likely they are to buy from you.
After all, isn`t that why you`re in business in the first place? I just don`t get it.
Now I understand, some people just aren`t very secure in how they look and I respect that. But that really shouldn`t be a concern to you. Here`s why:
It`s not about your looks. It`s all in how you present yourself. It really is.
I can tell you from personal experience, no one cares what you look like...what color you are...whether you`re a man or a woman. If you act and portray yourself as a knowledgeable professional, you`ll be treated like a professional.
Let me give you an example of what I`m talking about:
Remember Ruben Studdard? He won the 2003 American Idol talent contest over fan favorite and runner-up Clay Aiken.
Ruben was a huge, 300-plus pounds black man. In fact, because of his velvety smooth voice and size, he was nicknamed "the velvet teddy bear." But America didn`t care about his weight. The only thing that mattered to the voters was that Ruben Studdard could sing his butt off.
Here`s my thing, if someone is going to judge whether or not they want to do business with you based on your looks, race gender or anything else, you`re better off without that type of client anyway. Who needs `em?
Associating your face with your business has proven to be extremely effective. That`s why whenever you see infomercials on television, they`re not only selling the product or service, they`re selling the person behind the product or service as well.
Look at the television commercials of your local car dealerships. They put their faces front and center, because they understand that people buy from people they know and trust. And the more they see your face, the more they feel they know you and the more they trust you.
It`s all about human psychology. Can you imagine how uncomfortable you would feel, if your next door neighbors wore masks all the time, and you didn`t know their names?
Wouldn`t that freak you out? Would you trust them? Of course, you wouldn`t. Well the same premise applies in marketing. You`ll be more successful, if people know and trust you.
Just make sure you don`t abuse that trust.
Dale King
No name, no pic, no address, no phone number, no website, no sig file...If your goal is too become successful online, that`s certainly not the way to do it.
Look at the top marketers. We know their names, where they live, what they look like, etc. That`s how they became top marketers. They developed a trust factor online, by exposing themselves and revealing who they are.
They allowed us to get to know them. And people buy from people they know and trust. That`s an ironclad fact.
Hiding behind a silly avatar and screen name doesn`t instill very much trust. Who or what are you guys hiding from?
Are the cops hot on your trail?...the feds?...a psychopathic ex? Seriously though, would you give your money to a phantom?
Well then, why would you expect anyone to give their money to you? So many people who post on forums are phantoms. Why?
Actually, a better question is, unless you are indeed hiding from the law, why not put yourself out there? The more familiar people are with you, the more people will trust you, the more likely they are to buy from you.
After all, isn`t that why you`re in business in the first place? I just don`t get it.
Now I understand, some people just aren`t very secure in how they look and I respect that. But that really shouldn`t be a concern to you. Here`s why:
It`s not about your looks. It`s all in how you present yourself. It really is.
I can tell you from personal experience, no one cares what you look like...what color you are...whether you`re a man or a woman. If you act and portray yourself as a knowledgeable professional, you`ll be treated like a professional.
Let me give you an example of what I`m talking about:
Remember Ruben Studdard? He won the 2003 American Idol talent contest over fan favorite and runner-up Clay Aiken.
Ruben was a huge, 300-plus pounds black man. In fact, because of his velvety smooth voice and size, he was nicknamed "the velvet teddy bear." But America didn`t care about his weight. The only thing that mattered to the voters was that Ruben Studdard could sing his butt off.
Here`s my thing, if someone is going to judge whether or not they want to do business with you based on your looks, race gender or anything else, you`re better off without that type of client anyway. Who needs `em?
Associating your face with your business has proven to be extremely effective. That`s why whenever you see infomercials on television, they`re not only selling the product or service, they`re selling the person behind the product or service as well.
Look at the television commercials of your local car dealerships. They put their faces front and center, because they understand that people buy from people they know and trust. And the more they see your face, the more they feel they know you and the more they trust you.
It`s all about human psychology. Can you imagine how uncomfortable you would feel, if your next door neighbors wore masks all the time, and you didn`t know their names?
Wouldn`t that freak you out? Would you trust them? Of course, you wouldn`t. Well the same premise applies in marketing. You`ll be more successful, if people know and trust you.
Just make sure you don`t abuse that trust.
Dale King
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That said, you make a valid point about safety. However, there`s a way around the safety issue. If you don`t want people know your home or business address, you can get an alternate address through the UPS Store.
In addition, if you don`t want people to know your real phone number, you can simply use voice mail.
You can still reveal your identity without sacrificing your safety.
Dale KingDKing2007-6-25 13:34:39
Nikole, you must be the unhappiest woman in the world. You very rarely have anything positive to say. Don`t you have anything better to do than to take transparent shots at me? So, so sad.
By the way, I`m not going to let you hijack this thread with your poisonous negativity, so as far as I`m concerned, this conversation between us is over.
Dale KingDKing2007-6-26 15:55:2
It only says "Successfully take" now.